Hi, So I joined a few weeks ago but haven't posted anything yet. I'm 24 and earlier this year finally came to the conclusion that I am actually gay (I've sort of always known but my lack of experience with either gender made me doubt myself. When I went to uni at 18 I started a relationship with a guy that lasted for several years, but I realised after we broke up that I although I cared about him a lot I was never really attracted to him. So now I feel stuck and unsure of how to move foreward. Obviously everyone I know assumes I'm straight, and the idea of just realising I'm gay now, in my mid twenties seems a bit ridiculous- although I know that there are many people who come out in there 30s, 40s, 50s ect., and reading though the 'later in life' threads has given me some encouragement. Anyway, I feel quite alone- I did tell one friend and she was supportive but hasn't broached the subject since and I feel awkward bringing it up- I generally feel awkward talking about my feelings in general! What I really want is to meet someone but I feel scared and unsure of how to go about doing that, and wish someone could give me a shove in the right direction. Thats all I have to say for now
Hello there! Welcome I'm pretty much the same with talking about my feelings! I've told a couple of people about me, and I really want to again, but I'm too awkward to bring things up. It's not just you Hope things work out for you
I am in the US and in a pretty gay friendly city. We have a great LGBT resource center that has weekly meet ups at different locations throughout the downtown area. You should check online for something like that. It is a great way to meet new people. Having friends in the gay community really helps you transition. If your area has a pride event check that out. Our pride event is great we get alot of different kinds of people at it. Even alot of my straight friends go to show support. Good luck and be well.
