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it's really difficult to think of a title that hasn't already been used isnt it..

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by cxnfused, Jun 25, 2014.

  1. cxnfused

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    Hey there, I'm new here and currently going through the "oooOoh a new website/forum/chat room thingy that might actually not contain narrow minded judgmental idiots" excited stage of registration. It's new, I thought of it on the spot just there and they don't give it in the small print.
    Before I go any further, just to let you know my dear reader that I am a girl, I am Irish and I am 17 years old (almost 18) ((yes, that almost is very important)).
    I enjoy communicating my thoughts in written words more so than all that scary confrontational verbal stuff.
    To cut a rambling and slightly overly chatty nervous introduction to my existence short, lets just say I am very confused (hence, the username with the classic hipster 'x' instead of a vowel xoxo). I'm confused about who I am, where I am and where I want to go from now on. I'm ashamed of every aspect of my being and my mind set and I guess I'm just here to talk to people who feel the same way, because honestly, I've spent too much time trying to deal with it on my own.
    I'm not entirely sure how to use this website thingy yet but if you feel you'd like to discuss stuff with me, well I'm sure I feel the same way about you too.

    *this is me not knowing how to end this post and not wanting to say goodbye because goodbyes scare me a little bit.. so here, have a dancing banana (!) "
     
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    Haha hey! Welcome. I'm new too, but this forum is fantastic and so far, no narrow minded judgemental idiots in sight! I'm sure you'll find friendship, advice, and support here.

    (&&&)
     
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    Thank you so much, I really do hope so.. and also thank you for breaking that barrier of being my first ever reply on my first ever post.. I was getting rather anxious :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Haha I know that feeling! Don't worry about it:icon_bigg
     
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    Hey and welcome! :slight_smile: there are a lot of like minded people with no judgements to be had that are here for you at any time of the day, so you will no longer have to deal with things alone :slight_smile: its an awesome community to help you get to know yourself and feel comfortable about who you are. your at the right place!
     
  6. cxnfused

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    Thank yooou, I really appreciate it.. I'm kind of in the "early stages" of acceptance and all that stuff and I'm a bit wary and cautious of a lot of things, but I'm just glad that I've found this place that seems to be swarming with such lovely people!
     
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    im also in earlier stages , fear after fear but this site has already helped me in the last few weeks of being here so im sure it will you too, everyone is very lovely and helpful and considerate of each other so you will fit right in :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you so much, I look forward to what lies ahead then :slight_smile:
     
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    Hiya,
    Here is a great place to be, and we all love dancing bananas Heheheh. You've come to the right place, for intelligent advice and commentary, and good, kind non judgemental folk. So, put up your tent and settle in.
    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there! I'm still new myself but I've found this to be a great place. I hope you feel at home here!
     
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    So far so good anyway, everyone is so sweet and polite! I have a good feeling about all of this, I think its going to help me a lot :slight_smile:
     
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    From my experience, everyone here is pretty awesome, and I've been active for nearly 2 weeks now :slight_smile:

    Hope you enjoy it here! :grin:
     
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    Hello and welcome! :slight_smile:
     
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    Greetings! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! I'm certain you'll find what you're looking for. Everyone is so supportive and kind it feels like a big family.

    Best wishes
     
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    Welcome to EC! ^.^
     
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