And my closet isn't really empty (yet or ever?). I was pondering the irony of feeling safe enough to join this forum because of the anonymous nature of it. It's like finding a mask to explore where I'm at with my real life mask. I'm not sure what direction life is taking me at the moment and have zero people to talk to about it at this point. I am not sure how things would be for me had my generation grew up with all the internet has to offer, but I can see a lot of posts where others are stumbling through confusion midlife also. I realize people were happily gay long before the web, but it bubbled it up for me. :eek: It feels like my 80's theme song right now is "Should I stay or should I go" by the Clash. I will likely just read for a while but hope to get comfy enough to make some new friends and not worry about judgment. So I've rambled long enough....hi everyone! :smilewave
Welcome to EC. Well, you should stay....here you will never never ever have a judgement here we support you. Because. You. Are. Unique. and. that is what will never go away
Hey there...definitely stay...make friends...think you will find plenty of 40 something's like yourself (me included) trying to figure things out
