I'm happy to have found this site! I'm a late bloomer, out to myself at 42, but out only to my parents at 45. I thought that if I wasn't in a relationship it wouldn't matter if I told anyone else. But I'm starting to think that's just delaying things, and keeping me from moving forward. But I'm not sure if I'm ready to tell even my brother. It's nice to have a place to talk about it!