Hello c: this message is going to be extremely honest- something I'm not used to at all when it comes to subjects such as these. I am a 16 year old girl in a steady, healthy relationship with a boy (our 2 year anniversary is this month) and I have the most awful suspician that I am gay. Not that being gay is awful in the slightest, in fact i would have no problem if it wasn't for him. This is a situation i cannot work out. I love him, but i fear i am not attracted to him. The idea of a lesbian relationship fills me with happiness and excitement, as if it's a dream world where i figured this out sooner and I'm just fine. In short i need help. Maybe not help but just someone who is willing to listen to me ramble about things that probably seem silly. That is all i believe :')
Welcome to EC. It's a really tricky situation you find yourself in, isn't it? Can I suggest you repost the detail on one of the main forum boards as lots of people read those and you may get even more help and support.
Welcome, jenny. Just talking about it is the beginning to resolving it - whatever that resolution needs to be, for you - so I think coming here will he helpful. You will find others here, who can understand your situation directly, from their own personal experience. You are certainly not alone. And no, it doesn't sound silly at all. Damien.
Thank you Damien, I appreciate it. I really can't help but feel silly as someone who should be so happy and satisfied:')
