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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by pinkky, Jul 7, 2014.

  1. pinkky

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    Hi, i am pink. 18 years old from England . I am quite sure of my sexually but i have a problem accepting it due to fear of loosing my loved ones but i choose to let it be that way anyway. My greatest problem is making friends who are like me or finding love from the other side . Its soo hard, the girls i come across are usually the ones who just want to use u for nude pictures and dirty chat but the thing is that's not the type of person i am. I like getting to know someone,going out with them on a nice date or something. But moving along , things doesn't get that way. The funny thing is i am pretty hot lol. Not bragging but the attention i get are usually from guys . Maybe its cause i am not open enough but even if i was , i dont think things will get better. Sorry for the long paragraphs. I will really like to make friends :slight_smile:. So what do u think? :icon_redf
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC, what do I think? Your in the right place, feel free to message me if you need advice or want to chat.
     
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    Thank u , how are u finding life though?
     
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    It is good how is yours?
     
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    Abit hard but am trying .
     
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    Good that you are trying, are the hard parts the issues you raised or something different?
     
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    Yeh they are the issues i stated above but i dont really expect things to go my way
     
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    Give it time, are you sure you will loose people if you come out? Do you know for sure they will have a problem with it?
     
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    I have and yh i am pretty sure because they are skeptical about L and G people . Ive had random convos with them about gay people and sometimes they see things like if their child was gay or a lesbian, they were getting disowned
     
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    The best thing to do may be to wait until you are in a position where you are independent and then tell them
     
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    Yh that's a really good idea. Been thinking about that. Thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    Your welcome
     
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    Hey pink, I just want to welcome you and say that I hope you are able to come to terms with your sexuality with the help of the wonderful members. Also I hope that you make new friends who will both support and advise you.
    Good luck :slight_smile:
    If you ever need a friend don't hesitate to contact me :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Pink :3 Welcome to EC~
     
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    Hello from across the pond :grin: and welcome to EC!!
     
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