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So. Confused.

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by idream, Jul 13, 2014.

  1. idream

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    Hello people of EC. As you can see by the title, I'm one confused individual. Oh, words...anywho, I was just googling "how do I know if I'm gay?" And lookie here, google brought me to this splendid little place. I'm nervouse and extremely hot because, well, it suddenly feels real. Like I know...but I don't know. Well, hullo, anyways. I just...need people like me to talk to...
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! I hope that you can find solace in this site in order to quell whatever concerns or questions that you might have. You may feel free to contact anyone of us, as we'd be happy to help. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! Being confused about what your feelings might mean, and having questions on how to interpret them is quite normal in figuring everything out, and coming then to terms with whatever the case might be.

    Empty Closets can help you in figuring things out. Feel free to share your feelings, and ask questions. Some of the answers might help you to start understanding your feelings better. Sometimes, it will take a while before everything comes together and makes sense. But that's okay.

    Welcome aboard. :slight_smile:
     
  4. idream

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    You're using the nickname I came up with :slight_smile: by the way hello from Blue Byrd
     
  6. idream

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    But if course:slight_smile:
     
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    I think I am still fluctuating and evolving as well. I'm 80% sure of who I am and what I like but who really knows for certain? Sometimes you just got to go with the flow.
     
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    Welcome here. I'm new too.
     
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    Feelings like this are scary even to non-homophobes! I know, I'm the same way. We'll be able to find all the answers we need so welcome on board :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome.
     
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