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So so lost

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Sophiee, Jul 18, 2014.

  1. Sophiee

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    Hey,
    I'm in need of some help...I literally feel like I can not talk to anyone I know about how I feel, I'm a 23 year old female living with my boyfriend and child. My relationship with my boyfriend sexually is bad, but I feel the majority of it is my fault as I'm not sexually attracted to him no more. We don't have sex we rarely kiss. I've started looking on porn sites to watch lesbian sex scenes and I don't know what this means does this mean I'm bisexual? I feel like I have majority of the time liked guys more but women have always been on my mind too. Even though my relationship is bad with my boyfriend sexually we do get on well and he provides security for me and our one year old. But am I being selfish by staying with him because I want sex with girls and not him? I haven't even kissed another girl to see what it's like because I don't know how everyone I know would react if they found out.
    Just I don't know what to do anymore so if anyone could give me some information of their experiences or knows anything about this would mean a lot thanks.
    Sophie
     
  2. Candace

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    Hello and welcome to EC! It's a pleasure to meet you. :slight_smile:
     
  3. wolf of fire

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    Hello and welcome to EC, really this is a question for sexual and romantic orientation but anyway are you attracted to men at all? If you are then you are probably bisexual but if not then it's more likely that you are homosexual.
     
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