Hi everyone , it's been months since i came here so i figured out i should introduce myself again. I'm 19 years old , i'm in college , i still live with my familly , and i'm gay and never had a boyfriend and anything close to that ... the thing is i wasn't OK with my sexuality until a couple of years ago , and i came out to about 5 people after the start of this year , the reason why i wasn't okay with it is that i live in morocco , it's a country where being homophobe is normal , and actually it's an obligation , cause if you're not a homophobe here then your life would be hell ....so being homosexuel is very difficult . i know for a fact that all my friends and familly are homophobes (since they always bad-mouth it and say that it's a disease) so coming out to everyone is impossible for me , but i did come out to 5 people , the first was a girl who told me that a friend of mine has also came out to her so i came out to him the following day , then there was a facebook friend (who became my bestfriend very easily since our personnalities match ) but he was/is also a homophobe so i hesitated to come out to him , but i did and he accepted it because im also his best friend after all (he's still trying to make me straight even after all these months ) the fourth person was another internet friend who actually came out to me first (and i kinda had a crush on him for a few weeks , but it had already died after he came out to me) and last and fifth person is another girl who's also my best friend and she's the person i talk to the most , i don't even talk to my familly as much as i talk to her , so i felt kinda bad that i didn't came out to her earlier , and it turned out that she's Bi :lol: so it went pretty smooth with her , and i haven't yet came out to other people , althought i tried to come out to one of my friends lately by asking him "if you find out that one of your bestfriends is gay what would u do?" and he said he'd distance himself from that friend so i didn't come out to him (even if i'm certain that now he knows im gay) and that's it for me ... PS : sorry if i made any mistakes , english is my 3rd language
Hello and welcome back to EC! :smilewave It's a pleasure to meet you . P.S. you say that English is your third language? You're from Morocco= you speak Arabic and French? (parles-tu l'arabe et le français aussi?) :O
It's great that you guys speak French, but it is site policy that all posts must be in English, this allows the Moderators to properly assess threads, posts, etc.
That's exactly why I put everything in English in parentheses, just to be on the err of caution and to not alarm anyone .
