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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by biboy22, Jul 27, 2014.

  1. biboy22

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    hello im new and im lookin for some friends
     
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    Hello there, Welcome to EC! You're free to tell us about what's eating you.
     
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    well my best friend who is also like a sister to me moved away and she actually helped me stop cutting like 3 months ago because i was in a bad state of depression. i miss her and my parents cant know im bi right now i also just got out of a bad relationship with a guy
     
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    I'm sorry to hear that. Your best friend must really be special since she has always been there for you. Do you still keep in touch with her? And about your relationship with this guy, is this something you want to talk about?
     
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    So what's up? How did it happen?
     
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    this is how it happened.
    we had been going out for 2 yrs and lately we were argueing alot about how i spend alot of time about how i spend to much time wif zoe and he didnt know i was cutting and that y i spent alot of time wif her she trying to help me stop.well i finally asked zoe to tell him i was cutting and he freaked out 2 days after that he came to check on me i was fine i showed him my scars and i told him y i cut and he started to act kinda suspicous after that.well it only took me and zoe a month or 2 to find out he was cheating on me so zoe cussed him out i told her i could handle it and me and him broke up after talking for 2 hours.
    i really loved him but he didnt love me back
     
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    I'm sorry for what happened. I think it's for the best that you guys broke up since clearly he's with another someone. Remember to keep in touch with your best friend because I think she's a really good friend and is always there for you. If you ever think about cutting, please try to reach out to her first and if you can't do that, take the time to log in this forum because we are here to help you.
     
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    ok im still kinda depressed but i havent cut in 3 months
     
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    It takes a few steps but you should congratulate yourself for being strong.
     
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    and my parents cant know im bi yet because there against gays bisexuals lesbians
     
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    Hey and welcome to EC I hope you enjoy your time here and make new friends were both at five and support you in your efforts to come to terms with your sexual orientation also I hope that you're able to share your experiences both past and future with this wonderful community and it's equally wonderful to members. Although I see you've made a good friend :slight_smile:

    Good luck :slight_smile:
    Also if you ever need to chat feel free to contact me :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to the family, we're all here for you! *huggles*
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    im so bored
     
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