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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Jem202, Aug 1, 2014.

  1. Jem202

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    Hi,
    Where to begin. I've always considered myself straight but besides one 5 year relationship I've not really had many serious relationships with men and I've never really been too into casual flings. Recently I have met a girl who is a single lesbian. I have developed feelings for her and to be honest can't get her out of my mind. I'm in my early 30's but feel like a teenager with a first crush. I don't feel like I can talk to my friends about this which is why I have come here. Sometimes I feel like she might also be interested but I have no clue how to judge this or what to do next. Not sure how anyone can help but I felt this might be a forum to vent.
     
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    Welcome and wow thats a first really, a straight guy with a crush on a lesbian (sorry i think that might come across as hurtful for me to say or something, im not a good judge of emotions)
     
  3. Jem202

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    Haha, I'm a girl!
     
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    oh crap, im sorry um are you trans then, your gender says male are you ftm then?
     
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    Whoops, can see how that might have been confusing. No I'm female.
     
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    oh lol thats pretty funny, but now makes ALOT more sense
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! Have lots of fun here! I wish you good luck with that girl you're talking about. If you have any question, need any help, an advice or just want to chat, feel free to post on my wall. You can also start your own thread. Enjoy! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave. It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:.
     
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    Welcome to EC :wave:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! ^-^

    Lots of love,
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Hi Newbie. I am new here as well.
     
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