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Long hello!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by DeJe, Aug 6, 2014.

  1. DeJe

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    Good morning all! I'm glad I found this forum, as my mind is all over the place lately. Here's my story:

    In my old group of friends, it was always the running joke that I was the "token straight girl" of the group. At the time, my group of friends were lesbians and I wasn't. I loved going to the lesbian bars and Pride with them because I didn't feel like I had to impress others and I could relax and have fun (I tend to be shy initially). They always joked that they were going to "turn me into" a lesbian. They didn't approve of the term bisexual because they insisted one was either straight or gay - no gray area. Anyways, during that time in my life, I experimented with kissing other girls and loved it...a couple of girls got touchy-feely but I was too scared to reciprocate.

    Many years have passed since then and I don't see these old friends anymore due to people moving. I also recently moved to another state and only have one friend here from back home, but I don't see her much so I don't really have a support system here. I haven't had any sexual contact with anyone, male or female, in the past 4 years. When I fantasize or watch porn, it's about other females 90% of the time. However the thought of giving another girl oral sex is not appealing to me. Anywho, I don't know where to go from here, especially being shy and not really knowing anyone in this small but major city. Soooo that's why I'm here. I look forward to giving and receiving support here!
     
  2. Wolf of The Baltic

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    Welcome madam, I would like to show you to this family that we have come together to help people like you and me. If you are in need of a friend or just want to chat send me a message. This family is here to help you in anyway possible, so you madam just kick back and let us do the helping

    -the king
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! I hope you'll find the support you're seeking for on here. It's a pleasure meeting you and if you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate dropping a message on my profile. I'd be honored to listen.

    Lots of love,
    Andy
     
  5. DeJe

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    Thanks for the welcome everyone!
     
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    Y'all seem in such a hurry to decide on a sexual preference. Don't be. You've got decades to enjoy annoying people if you don't.
     
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    Hello and welcome :slight_smile:
     
  8. DeJe

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    I'm not rushing anything. I'm just trying to sort things out and be honest with myself.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:.