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New here - great to meet you all

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by doorways, Aug 9, 2014.

  1. doorways

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    Hello! I am a SWF, 40. Never dated a woman but FINALLY coming to terms that I am probably gay. I say 'probably' since I never dated a woman before. Been in love with women before (from afar) and recently fell hard for a close (lesbian) friend and told her. Wonderful to realize yet incredibly depressing when it's unrequited. Struggling to move on - late in the game. I hardly dated (men) before and now I know why.

    I am finally ready to figure this out.
    Looking forward to learning more about you, me, and having conversations with those in same situation.
     
  2. Candace

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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave. :welcome:. It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:

    And cool! I really love Chicago. Great city :grin:
     
  3. Mirko

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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! It sounds like that you have started to be on your way to figuring things out. Glad you have decided to join to figure things out. Feel free to create threads in the support areas and/or participate in discussions. Welcome aboard. :slight_smile:
     
  4. Braknem

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    :welcome:
     
  5. resu

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    Welcome! It's never too late to understand yourself, especially something as important as love.