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My first coming out.

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Cecilie1710, Aug 17, 2014.

  1. Cecilie1710

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    The first time i'm telling anyone about these thought is here, right now. I have not told anyone or even written it down before now.
    I'm a lesbian. I'm pretty sure at least, but have never been with a girl, only kissed, which is a part of why I hesitate to come out of the closet. But i'm attracted to girls and just the thought of being with a boy feels so wrong.
    I am sick of not being able to talk to anyone these feelings and I feel very alone. So I hope joining this site will help, because I really need to get this of my chest.
     
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    Nice to meet you! I hope everyone on EC will be able to help you get through any issues you face, especially coming out as it seems you're past confusion and denial. Good luck to you and I hope for the best.
     
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    Exactly what this site is for! Getting support and working out your feelings.
     
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    Thank you for you sweet replay and nice to me you too! I'm still a little confused, but I know now that it's something that's not going to go away and I have to face it somehow.
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! Congratulations on taking that big and courageous step. Empty Closets is a great place to talk about your feelings, and make a few friends along the way.

    With time, you will start feeling comfortable enough to explore your feelings and attractions more and to start opening the closet door. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! Welcome to EC! I hope you enjoy your stay here. No one here will put you down at all, we're all a supportive community and always have been!

    "I wish I didn't have such a big dick, I want people to see me for who I am." - Marilyn Manson (paraphrased)
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC :welcome:. You couldn't have picked a more supportive place so don't worry, everyone is really nice. If you ever want to chat, or a friendly ear, feel free to post a message on my wall.
     
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    Welcome to EC :wave:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome:. It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:.
     
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    Hey, welcome!! :smilewave
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC.

    EC is a great and safe place for you to start exploring your feelings. Hopefully the journey won't be too tough - there are plenty of wise souls to help you along the way.

    Welcome aboard!!

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    Hello there and welcome to Empty Closets! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    I am sure you will fit in here fine and get the support you need. Well done for coming out about it, I know how hard it is. Feel free to message me. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you for all the support! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi!!

    Take all the time you need, there's no hurry, and enjoy the ride!
     
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