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My mother is homophobe

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  1. Super gay

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    Hi my name is august I'm A 13 year old boy and I live in Texas with my mom. She is a homophobe she has brought my life to derpressoin and a endless point because she never does anything and cause she hates gays that is why I'm on here to get help and answers :help:
     
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    Welcome to Empt Closets friend! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC, feel free to message me if you need help or want to chat. Is your Mother religious or does she have a different issue with gays?
     
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    Welcome to EC! Always happy to answer questions and help here.
    I hope you don't mind but would you go into more detail on why your mum is homophobic and to what extent it goes. Thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    She isn't religious she just hates gays

    ---------- Post added 19th Aug 2014 at 10:26 AM ----------

    I mean she doesn't have a reason to hate gays she doesn't go to church she doesn't do anything
     
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    Welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:.


    I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. That's what we're here for! To help you with your concerns, doubts, and questions that you might have :grin:.
     
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    If possible when the topic comes up you could ask her what the issue is then you can work from there.
     
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    I've already told her I was gay
     
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    How did she react?
    How is risk are you of being kicked out?
     
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    Badly she was supportive the tone in her voice made think otherwise why did I even tell her
     
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    The best thing you can do is be the same person you have been, show her it has not changed you.
     
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    The good part is I don't really do anything to be gay so
     
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    Hang in there. I grew up with a disconnected, depressed and dysfunctional mother. There is a very bright light out there that you can follow. It may feel like forever, but in retrospect it is nothing. Follow your interests, apply yourself to them, and the next thing you know is that you're on your own and the world is your oyster.
     
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    Also, welcome to EC! It's a pleasure meeting you.

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    Hey mate, hope you find what you want.
     
  20. Sorry to hear about your mom. I haven't come out to my parents yet, but I intend on doing it soon, and I won't even care if my parents are homophobes. Good luck and message me if you feel like it.