I haven't come out anywhere else other than to my roommate. I am by birth a Christian and my grandfather is a preacher so coming out to family isn't an option. I know its important for me to accept myself but I don't need nor want my families approval. Something that they would not physically be able to do anyway. To them to act on my preference is a sin. I don't think they would disown me but I think it would hurt them, which I don't want to do. I had to come out somewhere and here is where I chose to go. I have been with both men and women and I am attracted to both equally.
Congrats on coming out on here! I'm also bisexual. Well, pansexual, but it's not too much of a jump. Welcome to EC, friend! I'm sorry to hear about your family.
Hello there and welcome to Empty Closets I am sorry to hear about your family views on gays, it must be really hard. I am sure you will fit in here fine and you can get support and friendship if need be. ride:
Welcome. While I can't personally relate to your experience, I know many, including close friends, who have had experiences similar to yours (including being the children of pastors.) It's difficult and challenging, and I commend you for simply being who you are and acknowledging that your family may always have difficulty accepting you. I will say, however, that sometimes we can be surprised. I know several people who came out to hellfire and brimstone, ultra-conservative parents (generally once they were self-sufficient and of legal age, to avoid any repercussions threatening their safety or housing)... and were surprised to find that, usually after a few months of soul searching, their parents came around. Whatever happens for you, I wish you the best. I encourage you to stick around here and share thoughts and feelings. EC is a pretty magical place.
Hello and welcome, Sidran! It's a pleasure meeting you and I wish you a great time on here. Lots of love, Andy
