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  1. runingman001

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    :help: Im going to tell my dad im bisexual any tips
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC, my first one get him at a good time, make him see you are still you. I do have a question how does he feel about LGBT in general?
     
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    Hey, and welcome to EC!

    It really depends on how your dad is. Is he anti-LGBT or is he OK with it? If you don't know, try bringing up a news story about gay/bisexual people and see how he reacts to it.

    If he turns out to be anti-LGBT, consider waiting until you're capable of supporting yourself to move out, if not already.

    If he turns out to be OK with them, maybe you can write a letter, or just tell him face-to-face. Don't hesitate - be confident! If you're young, he may pull the "this is a phase" card on you, but be firm. Tell him that this is not a phase, and in a few years (assuming you're younger) he will see - you're really bisexual, and it isn't a phase.

    And, DON'T be pressured to date women if you don't want to. You can date whoever you damn please, woman or man, and your dad can't do anything about it.

    Good luck. (*hug*)
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome:. It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:.
     
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