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Hello! New Guy Here! Confused and need guidance!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by sdsfguy, Sep 7, 2014.

  1. sdsfguy

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    Hello all! I'm a 51 year old man who is currently married 26 years, but am definitely attracted to other men. I am feeling a little trapped right now as I have been trying to supress these feelings but all I seem to think about is what it would be like to meet another guy and act on my physical attraction to the same sex. Has anyone else had these same feelings? I'm looking forward to meeting you and sharing thoughts and feelings. Feel free to private message me if desired.
     
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    Hey mate, I hope you can find the answers you seek on this site :icon_bigg
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! There are many people who have had similar experiences to you. Check out the "later in life" subforum for a lot of stories and advice.
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Thank you so much for the welcome! I'm so impressed that I've heard back from so many people so fast! Looking forward to hanging out with you all!
     
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    Hello sdsfguy

    As has been said, look in the Later Life section. There are some threads from people in your situation with some inspiring, but painful stories.

    Welcome aboard!