hey guys, I've just moved close to Philadelphia from Germany and am realazing again how hard it is sometimes to tell new people that I'm gay. Although I had a little struggle this summer, when my very serious relationship with my ex gf ended the beginning of may, I thought maybe I do like guys too (again). And I tried it and it was okay. Thought maybe I should try a boyfriend again see how it goes. The issues I had with my ex wouldn't exist with a guy. Also there are like 3 % of cute guys in the world. But maybe that was just a feeling out of trying not to feel too bad about the breakup. I don't know I'm still a little confused. I do know though I really miss going to gay bars and stuff so I'm hoping to meet some people here to hang out with. Cheers Kia
Hey! Nice to meet you I actually live on the other side of the state in Pittsburgh, well I hope you enjoy your stay here in this luxury site, and it's really easy to used to. In other words... Welcome!
Hi there and welcome to EC.. I hope you enjoy your time here.. I am bisexual and I think it is natural to think about if you are or aren't attracted to someone of either the opposite or same sex.. Try not to let it worry you and don't let it define you as to who you are.. Labels are not for everyone, you need to feel comfortable with who you are.
Thanks guys and Blossom you are right. I always say that you fall in love with a person not with a gender. I'm not worried, just confused. But I'm okay with it. It's nice to speak about it.
