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Hello, Beautiful People!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by TakeMe2Church, Sep 11, 2014.

  1. TakeMe2Church

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    Hi, folks. I'm a newbie and happy to find the site. I'm a 47-year-old male who recently came out to his wife of 14 years and two young kids. I am a PhD student in Canada who recently moved WAY south to a VERY red state (conservative) to work and be close to my kids. They moved down with their mom about a year ago.

    The transition has been tough since I'm not out of the closet except to family and closest friends. There's not much of a gay community here in my small city, and even if there were I'd be afraid of participating much since my work pretty much depends on me NOT being gay! I'm a minister of 23 years in a Christian denomination that is not accepting of LGBT folks. I am working to transition out so that I can FINALLY be out everywhere. I. cannot. freaking. wait.

    I look forward to your wit and wisdom, lovely people!

    Peace!
     
  2. Candace

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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
  3. Calica

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    :smilewaveWelcome
     
  4. Blossom85

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    Hi there and welcome to EC.
     
  5. Michael

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    (*hug*)

    I'm not sure if I believe in God or not, but I do believe in (brotherly) love.
    I can't even imagine how your situation feels, you are incredibly brave just for finally dare to live your life with honesty. I admire you :eusa_clap

    Yeah, well, welcome and all that too... :grin:
     
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    Welcome, and God Bless. I'm praying for you.
     
  8. PatrickUK

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    Welcome to Empty Closets. Nice to have you on board.

    If you need help, support or a good rant and rave make the most of the forum.