hi there, lovely people. (*hug*) i'm hadlie, and i'm a closeted high school lesbian with an inconsolable crush on my best friend and a hella complicated out status. also, even though it seems kind of beside the point, i'm really quite the femme, and this sometimes leads to me feeling like i'm not a "real" lesbian because, ya know. a lifetime of stereotypes can do that to a person. also, i have zero clue what i'm doing, in case it's not glaringly obvious. so, anyway, i'm happy to be here and hopefully find some cool humans that i can relate to/chit chat with/get advice from. kisses
welcome ---------- Post added 18th Sep 2014 at 06:20 PM ---------- lol i was 1 min after you posted it omg
Hello, Im sort of new. I guess I am super confused but yet not confused. Makes sense yet? Anywho, i love to talk to cool humans. Yay!!
Hi there Hun and welcome to EC.. It is always a little confusing and a little conflicting when you first come to that realization that you might be a lesbian or feel that's who you are.. Anyone can be whomever they want to be and like whomever they wish to like.. There is some really bad stereo types that a lot of people take at face value until they begin to question themselves. Just know that you aren't alone, there are so many people in your situation and who feel the same as you do. Don't feel you aren't a real lesbian because you don't meet societies expectations of what a lesbian is, if you are attracted to girls and feel comfortable and like you wanna be in a relationship with a woman and you aren't into guys.. Then you are a lesbian.. So don't stress about that you might not meet the 'criteria' for what a lesbian is.. You are who you are, never let anyone else tell you otherwise.
Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you I love your username and your avatar!
