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I'm a straight male and I'm into soft butch women

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  1. ren088

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    My question is are there any soft butch women into men and if so where would be a good place to look
     
    #1 ren088, Sep 23, 2014
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    #2 happydavid, Sep 23, 2014
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    I feel for you bro. Unfortunately there very few, and even if there were I think that would be against the sites rules to tell you where to find them because you could find somebody's contact info from here that way. I am a guy that is interested in women and transmen(Female to male) and yeah, I get bashed alot for that when the thing is I sometimes feel like transmen are my only option because there aren't hardly any straight or bi butch girls.
     
    #3 MrK21, Sep 23, 2014
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    I know quite a few but not too many unfortunately.
     
    #4 Yosia, Sep 23, 2014
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: Its a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    I'm cursed I can't help what I'm attracted to I'm attracted to soft butch women but there any into men I'm not into trans women just soft butch Dam I guess I will be single forever :frowning2:
     
    #7 ren088, Sep 23, 2014
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    hi welcome

    I don't know where to look or anything but I've met a lot of butch girls dating guys in my experience working and volunteering with animals so perhaps this is a route to consider if you like animals first and foremost and are not going to be weird or creepy or predatory about it? : , ) Don't give up hope.
     
    #8 asdfghjk, Sep 23, 2014
  9. Fallingdown7

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    Don't give up hope. Women of different gender expressions come in all sorts of sexual orientations. I knew a straight female who only liked extremely feminine men, and it just so happened that men like that who like girls existed....so why not the opposite?
     
    #9 Fallingdown7, Sep 23, 2014
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    Um, wouldn't a dating site work ?
     
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    Do u know of any dating sites
     
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    They are definitely out there man; I've been referred to as Soft Butch before (I identify as Androgynous/Genderqueer). And my partner is as straight as they come, 6 foot 5 tall, in the army, and plays Grid Iron - don't lose hope, we found each other and have been together for 5 years :slight_smile:
     
    #12 EmmettBlack, Sep 25, 2014
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    As EC is for people as young as 13, dating sites, hookup apps, and so on cannot be referenced specifically in any way. Thank you in advance for the understanding.
     
    #13 LD579, Sep 25, 2014
  14. ren088

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    Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    I'm straight and I'm into soft masculine women
     
    #14 ren088, Sep 30, 2014
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    Because they're ignorant
     
    #15 Fallingdown7, Sep 30, 2014
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    And they think that gay = feminine/weak/unmanly.
     
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    Because they associate gay men with being weaker and against all of their ideals.
     
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    Basically what everyone else said and the fact that they're so desperate to exert their so-called power upon you that they'll call you a "stupid butt" if nothing else works.

    Don't mind them.
     
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    Because they're idiots. Welcome to EC
     
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    Re: Why do people think men gay because they are into masculine women

    cause she would act like a man. Like why I would be with a girl who acts like a man? I would feel like im dating a guy. (yeah im not that straight but still)
     
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