Hi, I'm new to this forum. I'm 38 and still a virgin. Over the past few years I've been questioning my sexual orientation. Whether or not if i was bi. I've been mostly attracted to a certain type of guy, but recently I've been attracted to other women and most recently a female coworker who's department has moved to my floor. I know my family would approve cause my step sister is bi and everyone is accepting of it. It sort of makes me anxious, am i feeling this way because most guys don't like me and I'm subconsciously looking for an alternative? Or is this for real?
You never know it could be for real. And maybe you just haven't met the right kind of guy? Life has it's mysteries.
Hey Jupiter! First off I want to tell you how sorry I am that you've gone this long without intimate companionship. I know what it's like to a smaller degree, like the whole world is deserving of something that you are not. Rest assured that is certainly not the case. Why do you think most guys don't like you? What type of guy have you been attracted to? When you think about the woman at work, what sort of thoughts and feelings do you have? No quick answers, just whatever is in your heart. And welcome to the forum, sweetie!
Girls get put in the friend zone too. I've always liked bigger guys, the handyman kind of guy. Unfortunately they always want barbie which I'm not. I've always been a Tom boy. I treasure my tool box more then my makeup box. I can fix my own car. Im a good shot with a rifle (at the fireing range only). So maybe i just intimidate guys?Right now I'm actually attracted to a guy I know as well as the female coworker, but when I see her at work, usually in the break room, my eyes always seem to wonder to her. I just can't really describe it. I like her pixie hair, I like her body frame. She seems like a Tom boy herself. Doesn't wear a lot of make up or perfume. (I really hate the smell of perfume). I can see a tattoo just under her scrubs and I keep wondering what it is. So BASICALLY I'm a bit messed in the head.
Hi jupiter, it's good to meet you. You sound like a great chick, one that knows what she enjoys. Come talk some more. You are among friends, and we can relate to your feelings. My friends here are helping me so much.
Starfleet, are you a cosplayers? ---------- Post added 30th Sep 2014 at 06:12 AM ---------- Hi Lovely
jupiter, I'd like to be! I really want to learn to sew and do things to make costumes, and I am collecting props - a communicator badge, phaser pistols - to do my Star Trek uniform. Do you cosplay? My friend Ashley wants to learn to cosplay and sew too.
Hi there and welcome to EC Hun, I think this forum will be wonderful for you and will be able to help you discover more about yourself.. I hope you enjoy being here.
Starfleet, I am a cosplayer. I just debuted my new cosplay last month as hellboy/girl. Lots of fun. Thanks everyone for the warm welcomes
Welcome to EC Jupiter , I know you have many questions with no answers right now but don't rush things, I think the answers itself will come to you 'hun (*hug*) I know you can find some enlightenment in this place, the people are very supportive, there's people who have gone through the same, we're here to help each other (&&&)
