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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Reggaeweirdo, Sep 30, 2014.

  1. Reggaeweirdo

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    Hey peoples,

    I'm a newbie, I know I like girls and that's all I'm really certain about and
    I have a situation that I need some help with. Thanks if you can or try to help.

    I have currently become close with this girl that I have developed a crush on
    And she has given me all signs that she likes me.

    Stares at me a lot
    Touches me at random
    Holds me in high regard
    Compliments me all the time
    Becomes ecstatic whenever I'm around
    Her eyes sparkle when I look at her
    Over hearing her and friends talking, when my name is brought
    Up says 'stop it' or 'shut up'

    But asking her her sexual orientation via fb got me a
    Stand to arms ( straight why?? ). She knows that I like girls.
    I'm really scared at the moment because I see her when I go back
    To school and I thought I had her feelings set in stone.

    So if u could plz help

    Thanks Reggaeweirdo
     
  2. Starfleet

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    Hi! :slight_smile: It's good to meet you.

    It certainly sounds like this girl likes you, but, I have less dating experience than anyone my age, evers. xD Just your luck.

    Other peoplw will probably be more help, and they will be along soon. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Reggaeweirdo

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    Thanks dude, and its nice to meet u too.
    Hope u get in the dating game soon urself
    :icon_bigg
     
  4. Starfleet

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    more like "thanks, girl", but I appreciate it. xD Good luck with all of this, we've all got your back.
     
  5. lukeluvznicki13

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    Greetings & Welcome! :smilewave :thumbsup: (*hug*)
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
  7. AsheTheHuman

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    It certainly seems like she likes you. There's always the possibility she's scared of coming out. Anyways' welcome to EC, my name's Ashley. Nice to meet you!
     
  8. Snever2late

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    Welcome!

    I would say she likes you for sure. Maybe she's just scared to admit it?

    Or...she likes the attention, but isn't about this life.

    I wish I could be more helpful, but good luck!
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
  12. ForestDweller

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    Though I don't have a lot of experience in the romantic world, I'd suggest hanging out alone with her more often if you're not. Also, you should try to be the person she can tell everything to. She will become more comfortable around you and if she is into you, eventually you two may become romantically interested. :3

    This is just something I've noticed with a lot of my female friends acting towards me before they knew I was gay.

    Good luck, and I hope I could help you!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to EC Hun,

    From what you say, it does sound like she might like you or at least have a crush on you.. However it is possible that she isn't out and might be scared of coming out, and she might be worried about what could happen if she was to come out.. I think just remain close with her, maybe invite her out to the movies or something like that and just try to spend some time with her alone and get more of a feel of everything.. It is sometimes a natural thing for two women to go from being friends to something more that it isn't even realized until you are both already falling.. Don't be shy around here and just get to posting, I have found this place to be very supportive and friendly.
     
  14. Reggaeweirdo

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    Thanks peoples,

    u are all so nice and I appreciate the support and hellos, I hope I can make it move forward if there is something there but if not I thank you people for all the efforts u have made to make me feel welcome.:slight_smile: