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Newbie (questioning gender)

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Porter, Oct 24, 2014.

  1. Porter

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    Hi, I've never reached out to a support board before, but I hope I'm doing this right!
    I'm comparatively very young to most of the people I've seen on this site- 16 years old (I hope that's not too much of a problem?). My nickname's Gin but I've been really recently trying out Porter as a chosen male name when it comes to online identity.

    I've been starting to question my gender identity, to the point where it's been stressing me out a bit and distracting me from doing regular things. I know others can't diagnose what I identify for me, but I was hoping being able to just talk about it from others who share similar experiences might help. I'm working on just experimenting with different expressions, and I suspect I'm either genderqueer or trans.

    You can use any pronouns you like, really- I am just experimenting with different things. 'He' would be a nice change of pace in contrast of living female all the time. (but whatever is cool with me?)

    I appreciate any advice or support available or just to talk about things!
     
  2. love dont judge

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    Hey. Glad to see we have another member. Don't worry about your age. They're are plenty of us younger ones on here, so all good there. It's good to see another person take that first step to discovering and accepting who they are.
     
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    Hello Porter, it's nice to meet you! No worries, there are many different age ranges on this site, and everyone's really supportive. Glad you joined us! :smilewave
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC!
     
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    Hello, welcome to EC:smilewave
     
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    Hello and welcome . Age is only a problem if you make it one it does not matter to us here at E C , so take your time and relax we are here to talk and help you threw we will give you more support than you stand lol . I hope you stay awhile and give the great people here a chance good luck my friend!
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC, feel free to message me if you need help with anything or want to chat.
     
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    Welcome to EC, Porter. And, I'd say I've seen a fairly even balance of ages on here, wwith a significant number of people around your age.
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Gale to have you here!
     
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    Greetings & Welcome to Empty Closets :thumbsup: :smilewave :welcome:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there and Welcome to EC,

    I hope you enjoy your time here.
     
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    Wow, thanks to everyone for the supportive comments!

    Not gonna lie, I was nervous at first with coming out with my problem to a forum of people, even overwhelmed. I'm really glad I did it though, and I'm excited to join a community with such friendly and open people!
    I'll probably start off with lurking around the gender identity board and probably making a thread there.

    Thanks again, I really appreciate all the support and look forward to getting to know all of you!
     
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    You're most certainly welcome. If you have any concerns or issues, then feel free to post a thread in the Support Area. That's what we're here for :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome!!! You are going through a similar thing that I have figured out. I hope you figure out what you'd like to be :slight_smile: