Hello everyone , I'm new here, just logging on for some advice, I have a wonderful boyfriend, older than I am , he has never married but always been in relationships with women, he is a very sexual being , and a recent break up ... ( secretiveness and distance) led me to ask for a very cool but honest talk , as I couldn't work out where we were sometimes , and my female instinct led me to calling him out on some stuff. He is a gentleman , so chic and intelligent , very generous and always sexual , always has a hard on LOL ! I think of myself as an open minded person , many gay friends etc ... But when it comes to myself , am I that open minded ? My beau admitted that in his past he has done a lot of stuff , orgies , etc ... But during our recent breakup he called an old aquaintance , a man , and met with him a couple of times for sex . I suppose I am afraid that he is going to declare that he is gay at last , although he says he really isn't gay , just has always had fantasies about men and women , he watches girl and hetero porn etc , I love him and he is very in love with me , I am just finding it hard to get past this very recent revelation, I want to resume my sex life with him , but these images of him with anman have turned me off , so basically sleeping with my knickers on LOl !! What to think ? What to do ? Thanks for any feedback JaneF
Hi there and Welcome, I hope you enjoy being here.. I think this might be best put into the family and friends and relationships section, you might get more replies there.
