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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Kinyayo, Nov 9, 2014.

  1. Kinyayo

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    Another newbie here!:icon_wink I guess I should tell you my story. I am 21 y.o., 6'0" or 1.8 m, 150 lb or 68 kg, a biological male, belongs to the Asian race, a university student. I hope it's not too detailed lol.:eusa_doh: Originally from Russia, but I live in Canada for a short period of time. Please forgive me if I am making mistakes in my writing. Most of my life I lived in a society which doesn't welcome people like me. That's a reason why since when I arrived to Canada my life changed a lot because now I can trust more people and be open about my sexuality. Of course it didn't happen overnight, but I can feel that slowly I am gaining more confidence. I opened up to some of my friends, and most of them are my close friends and they accepted me. I am really glad and I'll never forget the day I was completely honest to my friends. I have very good friends, even though we disagree in many areas, the most important is the strong connection between us. Nevertheless I still haven't open up completely because I am not disclosing my gayness to everyone who asks and avoid talking about sexual orientation at all. None of my family members knows my secret and I am certain that my mother and father would not be happy if I open myself to them. Needless to say I never had a boyfriend, though once I fall in love with a girl. Most people might assume I am not gay but in fact I am sexually attracted to guys and not girls. The feelings to the girl were purely romantic or platonic (not sure how to say it properly). Anyways I am looking forward to come out to my parents even though they wouldn't like it. I feel guilty because I am not completely honest even to my parents and brothers. I can only imagine how shocked my younger brother is going to be because he always seen me as a standard of a straight man lol. :lol: I guess that's it ~ Feel free to message me, I'd like to make friends here :icon_wink
     
  2. rhapsodic

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    Welcome to EC, and welcome to Canada! :smilewave

    I'm glad things are getting better for you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC. Nice to yeet mou!
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
  5. Kinyayo

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    Hello everyone!

    Thanks to you folks for a warm greeting! I'm happy to become the part of the community.
     
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    Welcome to EC, hope you like it here! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! Congratulations on starting to open up and being yourself among your friends. It's great that you have become more confident and comfortable with yourself.

    Welcome to the community, and enjoy your visits to the site.



    .... and welcome to Canada. :slight_smile:
     
  8. Khusro aries

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    Hiiii welcome here
     
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    Hi there and welcome to EC,

    I hope you enjoy being here, it's a really wonderful and supportive site.
     
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    Nice to meet you all ! ~
     
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    Hey mate welcome to EC
     
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    welcome to ec -purrs-
     
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    Hello there, I hope you'll have a good time here :slight_smile: