Hi, I'm a female married to a male with two young kids. I'm in my 30's and always thought I was bi. Being with a man was convenient because I could have kids and live in society like "normal" without anyone blinking. Well, over time it turns out that the appeal of "normal" social standing is wearing off and I realise that I'm not bi, I'm lesbian. So that's me - bear with me while I figure this out.