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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Spartan1337, Dec 2, 2014.

  1. Spartan1337

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    Hellooooo...I am a high schooler and I'm a lesbian. I've only come out to one person and I am all kinds of terrified to tell my parents I am gay. I have no idea how to tell them that.

    I want to be a firefighter/paramedic when I grow up. I live in a state where gay marriage is legal *fist pump*

    I had a suicide in the family recently and that is complicating things for me emotionally and making me feel almost guilty for being gay. I shouldn't feel guilty! Loving other women is awesome!!

    Anyway looking forward to getting help and advice!!!

    -Spartan 1337
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC, there are others here who can relate to what you're going through. I hope you like it here. (*hug*)
     
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    Welcome , it is natural to be scared . Step one take a seat . Step two take a great big old deep breath an try to relax . It will be ok there is no hurry you have all the time in the world to tell your parents an who ever else you want to . You will know when the time is right to come out so don't try to rush it . You will do great !
     
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    :thewave: Hello! :welcome: to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! You will be fine, stay strong Hun!
     
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    Welcome aboard! You're gonna love it here. Best of luck!
     
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    Hey! We need more Spartans around here! :icon_wink Welcome aboard!
     
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    Hello there! Welcome to EC trust me you will be scared at first but once you make some friends you will be fine :grin:
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :slight_smile: It's a pleasure to meet you! :welcome: :smilewave
     
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    Thank you all for the warm welcome. :slight_smile: