Hey everybody, I'm new to EC and you guys can call me Raceme! I'm a gender-neutral NB and femmesexual. Essentially, I identify as neither boy nor girl and I'm attracted to feminine males and females. I've been out of the closet for a couple of years now, though only about my sexuality - I'd always worried that people would think me an attention seeker if I mentioned my gender. I'm glad to be a part of this community, and hope that I'll make some new friends!
Welcome to EC!:smilewave I don't think I've ever heard of anyone being accused of being attention-seeking for claiming to be an androgyne. If it's an integral part of who you are, and you've already come out about your sexuality, maybe it's time to start letting people know? Then again, I'm still deep in the closet, so I probably shouldn't be talking:rolle:. Regardless, I'm sure we're all glad to have you.
Welcome to EC! And don't worry about being seen as an attention seeker, being NB is just an interesting part of you that may be a little more visible than other things. If someone has an aversion to it, then it's their problem.
On a second thought, you might have a look at this: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/155543-not-female-not-male-but.html#2