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Well.. Hi again

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Omni, Dec 20, 2014.

  1. Omni

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    It's been a long while since I've been on this site.. Well sort of.. And even when I was on, I never really.. Got very involved.. So.. I've decided to say hello again :rolle:

    Lets call me omni for right now :slight_smile: because I'm not sure how I feel about saying my real name. I'm a 16 (turned it just this month.. How fun) year old girl living in this beyond crazy world.

    I don't know what I am.. Who I am.. I feel so confused about myself all the time anymore. How I want to look, what I feel comfortable looking like, and more importantly.. Who I'm attracted to.. It's all so confusing..

    I hope that I get to make some friends on here though.. Because it would be nice to have someone to talk to who knows..

    Well.. Have a nice day everyone :icon_redf
     
  2. Mirko

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    Hi there! Welcome back. :slight_smile:

    Although it's not fun going through what you are experiencing at the moment, the good news is that with time, you will figure it all out.

    What might help is to take a note of who you feel attracted to. Do you turn around when you see a guy or a girl passing you to get a second look? Have you ever felt attracted to someone, or did you have someone who was always on your mind and thought about what would it be like to be with them?

    Try to talk with a few members about their experiences, and you might find a couple of answers as well. Stick around. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Jakob

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    Welcome back to EC!
     
  4. happydavid

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    Hi there. Feel free to chat with me if you have anything you want to talk about, i'm a great listener :slight_smile:
     
  6. chemicalbond

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    Hello, Omni! :smilewave

    I think not knowing one's own identity is pretty common among people your age--in varying degrees, of course. You're actually in a great position to start finding yourself, because you have a whole life ahead of you. Just take it one step at a time--thinking about everything at once can really overwhelm.
     
  7. Candace

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    Welcome back to EC! :slight_smile: :smilewave