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New and probably bi

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Ellieworm, Jan 4, 2015.

  1. Ellieworm

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    Hey everyone. I'm new to this.
    So my story I guess... I came out to my parents about two years ago being lesbian, but then I may of freaked myself out and went back into the closet. I then began to realize that I was different and had feelings that reminded me of what I had had two years earlier. I suppressed them to be honest. I still am not liking the feelings but at the same time it makes me feel good and happy. I have told some of my friends and they are completely accepting. I dare not to tell my family though. My moms side of the family are deep Christian and when my cousin came out they kind of pushed him or don't believ its true and that it is just a phase. Well I know it's not a phase for him and it's not for me. For me I am not sure whether I am just bi or lesbian because I still find guys attractive but women are just who I have been close to my entire life and I find them beautiful and some are a turn on. But anyways that's me and my story. After labelling myself( which I hate the idea of labels) I've felt good and have been more happy. Any advice for me? And I can't wait to see what turns out of me joining this site!
     
  2. XenaxGabby

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    Hi there! Welcome:slight_smile: It's better to post questions regarding your situation in the support forums (Coming Out, General Advice). People will be more likely to reply there.
     
  3. Ellieworm

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    ok.. thank you. i guess I was just rambling there for a bit. haha!
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave :welcome: It's a pleasure to meet you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi, welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Ellie! Babble on, I do it all the time! :slight_smile:
     
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