Welcome! I think most of us have been where you are... there's no time table, and no rush to come out. I think it's safe to say that for most, the idea of coming out goes from "terrifying" to "OK I'm ready" at different rates for each person. What EC can do is help you figure out what you need to get comfortable with yourself. You'll find a lot of friendly folks here, so I hope you'll stick around!
Hey Sh1f73r, welcome to EC! Mind if we just call you "Shif"? Good for you for joining us, you'll find your way, no doubt about it!