Hello, I thought it was time to be brave enough to do a thread like this. I was suggested to check out this forum by my fiance Lazuri. I'm actually terrified of forums because of my social anxiety, so I haven't been on one for 6 years or more. I'm also very shy and awkward, afraid of upsetting people in some way or appear as strange. However sometimes I get too excited when talking and goes out of my comfort zone, feeling bad afterwards. So please bear with me. I'm questioning being ftm so goes by androgyne for now because it probably fits best. I'm also a mother* (or what to call it just not dad that's a very bad word for me) of a four month old baby. Will be looking forward to be here and I hope I will actually dare to make some posts that's not in my fiance's threads and maybe make a few of my own. I also write way too much.
Hey there! Everyone's really friendly here, so you have no need to worry. A lot of other members suffer from Social Anxiety too, so we know how you feel. (*hug*) Welcome!
Hey there! Nice to meet another pansexual! Don't worry too much about getting off on the wrong foot here, everyone's too nice to care. I hope this site and everyone else here gives you the support you need, or just people to talk to! Welcome!
Yeah, same here. You're probably right, I'm just a bit paranoid. ---------- Post added 15th Jan 2015 at 12:27 AM ---------- Very funny.
I'm a mother also, despite my genderqueer status. So regardless of what gender you are, or think you might be, you can be a mom. Well welcome to EC. Enjoy your stay. And hopefully it will be everything you hope and need. And then some.
Yeah, I thought so. ---------- Post added 15th Jan 2015 at 12:44 AM ---------- I think the main issue here is that everything in our relationship becomes topsy turvy since I'm MtF trans and she's almost the opposite. Everything about being a mother is confusing to her and desirable to me. We both pretty much feel that the other one should be in our place. Sometimes a relationship like ours gets tricky.
That's lovely words to hear! Thank you ^_^ I think it will be fine. ---------- Post added 15th Jan 2015 at 01:14 PM ---------- It's more like you're confused why I'm confused and don't really want what I have. ...Okay maybe you're right it sounds a bit tricky.
Welcome. It's a good place to talk to people and everybody I have chatted to on here is great. It's interesting to hear about your relationship. There are bits that sound vaguely similar to the relationship I have with my fiancée.
Riz.... I though I'd just take a movement to say say hello and welcome to EC. Your orientation confuses me. But maybe if you explained it more it would not only help me understand but it would help you too. Sometimes explaining things to others makes them clearer to ourselves! Again....Welcome to EC!!
Hi! How does it confuse you? As far as I know pansexuality is when you're not attracted to any specific gender. Which I'm not, but I've not thought any deeper than that, therefor why I've written probably. Does that explain it somewhat?
