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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by forbiddenlove12, Jan 22, 2015.

  1. forbiddenlove12

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    Hello, I'm kind of new, I made this profile a while back when I was starting to come out. I'm half out now (some people know, some don't ) Since I've been gone, my family found out I was gay, my parents forced me back into the closet, to them at least, the one man I thought I could trust, my boss, who was like a second dad to me, fired me over it, and I lost a few friends. I made this post to reintroduce my self, maybe connect with friends from here, and meet new friends. I love reading, am an avid fanboy, and enjoy anime, video games, (anything LOTR especially)and am just kind of drifting through life right now. I can't wait to meet you all :slight_smile:
     
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    hi sorry that you're boss fired you. Homophobic people are just close minded. I hope you find a new even cooler job. I work at a coffee shop :slight_smile:
     
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    Haha I literally just commented on your thread man XD
     
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    forbiddenlove12 sorry about the deal with your boss. Some people treat those with a different orientation like they were carriers of some kind of disease. I hope you have someone there to talk to...if not don't forget that EC is always here to listen and give a shot at trying to help!!! You said you like LOTR...how about a trivia question: What was Saruman's name before he came to Middle-Earth...just for fun, get your mind off the things!! Have a great day! David
     
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    Hey! Nice to meet you. I'm pretty new myself, so it's always nice to talk to other people.
    What anime do you like?
     
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    Saran was Curumo! Not sure on the spelling though haha
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :slight_smile:

    Cool! You're from Fairbanks :O I was there in Fairbanks in 2002 and I thought it was a nice place :grin:
     
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    Hi

    Sorry to hear about your boss. Hang in there!
     
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    Hello there, welcome back to EC
    You've been through a lot it seems, I hope you will find a better job, I can't imagine why get fired because of your sexuality, what the job got to do with whom You sleep with?
    I'm sorry about you parents, I hope it will turn well with them, if not I wish you have the strength to go by.
     
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    forbiddenlove12....You got it, but there's more: Saurman- Curumo/Curunir/Mairon servant of Aule. Well so much for fun...how are thing's going? At least a little better, I hope. Looking for a new job and dealing with family...not fun, but don't give up....we're still here or you.
     
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    quebec, I never heard the other names, but that's cool to know, thanks :slight_smile: kingjabujabu, I really love bleach and soul eater, although I enjoy Naruto as well. To everyone else, thank you for the kind words, they really mean a lot to me :slight_smile:
     
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    Three words: double back pay.

    In 2011, the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission ruled twice that discrimination based on "sex-stereotypes" was illegal sex discrimination, and included firing based on sexual orientation. (Discrimination Based on Sexual Orientation, Status as a Parent, Marital Status and Political Affiliation)

    The thing is, you have to file to be protected. You can call the EEOC at 1-800-669-4000. You only have a few months to file a complaint, so call them as soon as you can! If you were filed because you came out to your boss, these guys will make things right.

    Good luck!
     
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    Hi kinda new. I know the feeling. I have known since 6th grade I was bi/gay. But I just recently admitted it to myself. My family on the other hand is gonna be a different story. Any suggestions anyone?
     
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