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How do I be Bi?

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by DCmonster, Jan 28, 2015.

  1. DCmonster

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    Hey y'all!

    So I'm surprised I'm even writing here. I'm a college freshman (and a girl) and have kind of been curious about exploring bisexuality for two year now (is that how you say it? ) Anyway, I'm not completely sure how I feel and now that I'm in college I'd like to explore it more. I definitely like guys, and am attracted to girls, but I don't that I could date them.

    Only two of my closest friends know about this. My family and the majority of my friends would not be supportive (initially, at least), so I want to keep it on the DL until I'm sure. I guess my question is how do I explore this? I don't even know how to meet other bi/lesbian girls, much less how to talk to them!

    Help!
     
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    Hey welcome to EC :slight_smile: As for 'how to be bi', I really wish I knew :wink: My advice would just be, be yourself. You meet girls the same way you meet guys, I guess.
     
  3. Pret Allez

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    Hi, sweetie! :3

    The best way to be bisexual is to ethically negotiate consent with everyone and have sex with whoever you want. That's how we try to do it. ^_^

    In all seriousness, you're allowed to experiment.

    There's no political requirement that you have to figure everything out in your head about your attractions before you start exploring.

    Adrienne
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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