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I've stopped lurking.

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by dee22, Feb 27, 2015.

  1. dee22

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    Hello, I've been reading some posts on here a few weeks now and decided to register. I'm 23 and from Scotland. I came out to my mum last year and she was just "yeah I knew" lol but although I've not had a boyfriend since I was 16 I have slept withe this one guy a few times over the last few years, he's a friend and I told him too, he just laughed and didn't care it gave me the guts to realise I was just not into it at all and have been into women for a very long time. With all the awkward bit over.......hi
     
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    Hi! Thank you for deciding not to lurk anymore! You know it is smelly in the EC underground, hahaha just kidding. Yey, another cool member to be added in the EC family! I assure you that you have made a good decision by coming out of the EC underground! If you need someone to talk to, golgari is just a wall post away! Have a great time here in EC!
     
  3. dee22

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    Yeah i think i stepped on a rat down there! Thanks everyone seems genuine an helpful
     
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    Nice intro, thanks. In my novice opinion you've taken a good first step. I recently joined and myself trying to figure out how best to use ECs. (Empty Closets) With reference to your post you state, ~"very long time". I myself did not know for a long time. So you have one up on me. For me the shame was so severe the indirect criticism from my family so painful, I blocked out all processing of who I was. And you mom sound cool. Good luck.
     
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    Oh hi there I just met you and this is crazy my name is ken oh forget it welcome to ec xc
     
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    Hello :smilewave I'm glad you've decided to come out of the shadows and join the site. Welcome!
     
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    hello and welcome to EC sweetie <3 do feel free to ask for any help at all <3
     
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    Thank you. I havnt thought about telling my dad because of a few comments but my mums supportive.

    ---------- Post added 27th Feb 2015 at 10:44 AM ----------

    Thanks for the welcome guys :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    maybe, when your mum is an ally, it´ll be easier to tell your dad in the future, good luck :icon_bigg
     
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    Welcome to EC!
     
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    hello, i new here too. glad to see there are other around my age (im 27) going through something similar.
     
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    ::waves hello::

    I just joined as well, so glad I found this place! Back in the day I used livejournal but this seems to be a bit... nicer. I hope everyone is having a nice weekend :3
     
  17. Feline

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    Welcome!

    I too was lurking and recently decided to join. I'm glad you've found the courage to start accepting and knowing yourself and the support of some of those closer to you. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello dee22, welcome to EC!

    I love it when "lurkers" take the step to join us. First rule: enjoy yourself, ask for help if you need it, and help others if you think you have something valuable to contribute!
     
  19. dee22

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    Didnt realise i had so many replies thanks averyone. Want to make a few friends on here so feel free to speak on my wall thingy haha