Hey. I've been around browsing boards and things, getting a sense of the community vibe. Figured it was time to say hello, stop being creepy. (okay I joined like just over a day ago so it's not that weird but a day is ages for a youth. psychological fact) I'm transmasculine and agender, which is I guess a bunch of gender averages from the past 6 months. My genders change frequently, and because of that I got this really solid belief that I'm not "born this way," which is a primary motivating factor in figuring out how my genders work and what I want to do with them. If I was born this way, all this stuff wouldn't really be my own, it'd be some greater plan or predestination. I'm not a fan of the idea that my gender dysphoria was planned or predestined - I want to own it! (control freak control freak) I'm asexual. The amount of times I've said "that must make you not asexual" then had to analyze it and came to the conclusion that I don't even know what it means to be sexual so how could I even say that. So many times. That said, I'm polyromantic. I think of my romantic orientation as a bar: feminine on one end (we'll go with 0), masculine on the other (we'll go with 100). I possess a romantic orientation between 10 and 60. So. I came on here because I have about a zillion questions, mainly on FTM transition, college, and stuff along those lines. Got to organize my thoughts before getting to that. Thanks for existing and rocking' : )
Hello from a fellow Agender Aro/Ace~ Welcome to EC! Feel free to pop any questions you have in the appropriate forum sections and someone will be more than happy to answer or share a similar experience. Take care and best of luck to you! -MvH
Wow, you sound like a very analytic person! :icon_bigg Seriously though, welcome to the forum. I'm sure you'll find lots of helpful advice and support here.