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Am I straight bi or gay ?

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by miss curlywurly, Mar 14, 2015.

  1. miss curlywurly

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    Hi it's justmeatnumber9 :slight_smile: I'm 24 .

    I ended up jointing this site yesterday as I was searching google how do you know if your straight , bi or gay . I've been in a long term relationship for 9 years and have a 3 year old. A few times over the years I've questioned myself but never felt right with my sexuality . Sometimes I'm sure I'm straight then I'm sure I'm gay. Friends and partner have mentioned to me before i light up around girls . I'm just so confussed I need your advice . :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to Empty Closets. So many members have experienced confused feelings about their sexuality and it might be a good idea for you to start a thread in the support area with some specific detail about the confusion. There is usually more activity in the support area, so you will hopefully get some useful responses if you create a thread.

    Good to have you on board. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you for directing me in the right path :slight_smile:
     
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    It took me a long time. If you need to talk you can
     
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    Yum love chocolates . I'm just so confussed . How did you know . If you don't mind me asking . Signs etc
     
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    Hi JustMeAtNumber9, welcome to the forum!

    What you're asking is a complicated question, as it's different for everyone. I definitely recommend starting a thread in the Sexual and Romantic Orientation Forum. As Patrick says, I think you'll get a lot more responses there- as well as some helpful advice!

    For what it's worth, I knew I was gay quite early on- I could only imagine myself romantically involved with a man, and I've never felt physically attracted to a woman. It was simple for me- but for a lot of people it's not so simple, and it can be a very confusing subject.

    Take a look in the subforum above, and hopefully it'll point you in the right direction! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! I hope you find answers to your questions and learn more about yourself and others in the process!
     
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