I was raised in a very conservative religious household. My wife recently figured out she is bisexual. Our marriage was on the rocks, and in the last 7 months (through marriage counseling) we have grown far closer than we were before, but I have found some things out about myself that have me reeling. I do not feel that I am a man inside. Looking back through my life, it has always been there. It was minimized, shoved down, over compensated for...but always there. I haven't figured out where I land yet, and it's really frightening having life shaken up at the age of 30. I don't know what to do, who to talk to, or anything. I'm glad I have my wife, as she is about all that has kept me sane during this self exploration.
I just joined here myself. I'm not married but I sure have gone through a LOT in my life. Life changes. And wow it can be a a bad rush when it does. Sometimes it seems like I have just had to hang on tight and go for the ride. All the best to you and your wife both.
Welcome to EC. Feel free to explore the forum and open a thread on Gender Expression. This place was a great help when I finally had the guts to be honest about myself. It's full of good people who won't judge you, among other reasons because they have been there before. I'm one of them, and yes I'm on my 30s. Others are in their 40s and 50s, so it's not uncommon, and it can be done.
