I don't know how much I'll come on here, but here goes anyway. I'm a gender-neutral, pansexual. I'm not fully out, and since I have anxiety, I have issues with coming out to people. I also have dysmorphia and am looking into transitioning as an option. I have a supportive group and spouse, but sometimes it's nice talking to people who know what I'm going through, and have advice that comes from someone in my situation. I am also a huge nerd, with two adorable cats (one of whom is licking her butt as we speak, gross), and an engineer. So, hi!
Welcome to EC! There will always be new people that you will have to come out to. Despite suffering with anxiety, you have managed to come out to the people who matter and fastened your own support net. You have plenty to be proud of.