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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by candyjiru, Mar 27, 2015.

  1. candyjiru

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    Hi everyone, I'm Candy~ (well, not really but, no real names, right? XD)

    I'm a bisexual, maybe pansexual (wah confusing T.T) who is mostly in the closet~ I'm an American living in Korea, where being gay is taboo, "dirty," and not protected against discrimination in any way, so... I really can't be out here without fear of losing my job and being labeled a sex pervert T.T

    I am married to a man, so many people think I can't be bisexual which is awkward... and I have only come out to a few friends because my family would definitely disown me (as they threatened to do when I married my non-white husband, sigh, I'm kind of the "rebel" in my family, I guess?) I am proud, but also scared... living in the closet sucks, but I don't really see any coming out being possible... I am really glad to be on this site and able to talk to other lgbtqers about our issues and our stories <3 I love making friends and hope everyone has an awesome day <3 Thanks for reading ^.^
     
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    welcome to EC :slight_smile: I hope u can find the support you need here
     
  3. Robbie

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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
  5. candyjiru

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    Thank you, everyone! <3
     
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    Welcome~! ^.^

    Sounds like your situation kinda sucks, but EC is a place where you can be loved and receive advice! <3
     
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