Thanks for creating this welcoming space. I'm early 30s, dated guys but never really connected with the ones I liked. I've always been intensely attracted/attached to older women, along with crushes on plenty of people of either gender. I grew up willingly religious, so I generally respected my community's sexual mores ("no sex before marriage"). But when you never *get* married... I didn't expect that. I'd like to explore, but don't meet many singles in my area. So I'm not sure what to do now. Anyway - I like what I see so far, and I'm here to share and listen and learn.
Welcome to EC! I think you'll find lots of help and good advice on figuring out your sexuality and coming out on this site!