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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by PastaBanana, Apr 9, 2015.

  1. PastaBanana

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    Hello all! As you can see, I am totally new here. I'm just confused and looking around at other people's experiences. I've been attracted to men and women my whole life, and was in a failed marriage with a man for a few years (I've never dated a woman before). But the past couple years, I've only felt attracted to women, and I'm not sure if that's true feelings or just a result of my past relationship. Ugh, why does it have to be so confusing?lol
     
  2. phoenix200

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    Welcome to EC, PastaBanana! Nice to meet you! If you've been attracted to men and women you whole life, then I think it would be true feelings. Sexuality can be confusing, I hope you can understand yourself and your experiences more from this great community!
     
  3. Hyliana

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    Hello, and welcome to EC!
     
  4. ALittleWorrier

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    Hey and welcome! i'm getting the hang of this platform myself. Anyhoo, I just wanted to say that I love your username. Hahah, great job picking it PastaBanana!
     
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    Welcome, this is a great place to start the process. Hopefully you`ll explore, grow, and discover the real you, and if you do... I hope you get comfortable with it, whatever it may be. Good luck
     
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    Hi honey! Welcome! Your username is super cute and makes me hungry haha! See ya around! <3
     
  7. PastaBanana

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    Thanks for the replies, everyone! My username is an inside joke in my family, instead of saying Hasta MaƱana (see you tomorrow), we'll say Pasta Banana to each other. No idea how it started lol I guess I'm just glad to see I'm not alone, as sad as that may be for all of us.
     
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