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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by skulldawn, Apr 16, 2015.

  1. skulldawn

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    Hello, I am a Bisexual girl who is afraid to come out to her parents. I live with my mother who is psycho and tries to control me and my brother. If I told her she would certainly not approve and kick me out. Dunno how my dad would take it but probably not good. A small part of me feels that I shouldnt have to come out because when do straight people ever? But a bigger part of me wants to get it off my chest. Any advice on how to overcome my fear? (btw I have social anxiety so that makes it even harder) :confused:
     
  2. confuseddreamer

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    Hi... It's great to have have you here. This is a nice, friendly and safe place.
    Everyone will make you feel welcome.
    Please feel free to speak to me, or anyone else here anytime.
    We are all here for each other and to help and support each other.

    :welcome:
     
  3. Invidia

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    My first advice is to instantly go over to the Coming Out Advice section in the Support Area.
    I may say here and now though, if your mother is "psycho" it's good to have someone IRL to talk to. I'll assume you're a student in school. Do you have a school counselor you can talk to? Or some relative or friend's parents?
     
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    Hey there welcome!
     
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