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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by thegatekeeper, Apr 22, 2015.

  1. thegatekeeper

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    Hi All

    My name is Brad, I'm 60, been married 3 times(women), Since puberty I have identified my self as Bisexual. Up til about a year ago anyway. About two years ago I went into male menopause. About 6-12 months ago I guess, I came out of menopause with a vengeance.

    Since then I have had only sex with men. My wife is in the middle of menopause herself. So we have no sex at all. Which as far as I'm concerned is fine, because I have realized that I prefer to be with a man not a woman both sexually, emotionally.

    I have started therapy, I'm on my 4th 1 hour session. So far the therapist thinks that I'm OK just need a lot of help to find my true sexual identity.

    That's one reason I'm here to read other stories and maybe openly talk about mine.

    Thanks
     
  2. YermanTom

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    Welcome to EC :smilewave
    From my experience it helps to talk and listen to others!
    The essence is to be true to your heart. (*hug*)

    My "bold self" thinks there are a lot of people that will help you with your sexuality!!! :***:
     
  3. thegatekeeper

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