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Wow, I'm Gay!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by layladylay, May 3, 2015.

  1. layladylay

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    I'm Out, I'm Out, I'm Out, I'm Out, I'm Out! Yay!!!! It only washed over me yesterday, and then, tears, lots and lots of tears! I'm not a newbie, I've been this way ALL MY LIFE! How can you look at a thing point blank for so long and not see it?

    I'm 49. I love men - whoops, I love women who PASS as men (they are men to me). Not androgynous, or tomboy, nor trans. Living breathing women who live as men....

    But, where are they to be found? They are all so well-disguised...

    If anyone has any suggestions for how to find a community of women who are passing - but not transitioning - I'd be much obliged. I live in the deep South (currently) and expect it will be quite some time, and a move or two, before I have a chance at meeting a quality person.

    I'm pleased to have found this forum. Thanks.
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.

    And Dylans awesome :grin:
     
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    Hi there. Sounds pretty exciting where you are.
     
  5. layladylay

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    Hello everyone, thank you. It is exciting, but I feel very calm. I dont feel like I need to "do" anything. I don't know any lesbians, but that doesn't bother me. Everything in its own time. I know *me*, now. Coming out for me hasn't been like the acquisition of something new. It's not like I've bought a new dress. It's like I disrobed and put on my pajamas, made some popcorn, and kicked back in the living room to watch my favorite movie...it's called, "The Rest of my Life.". The absence of any drama about the realization is a relief. I hated that dress.
     
  6. Invidia

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    Hi :slight_smile: I recommend taking a peek in the Support Area, probably under Sexual and Romantic Orientation, your feeling here is very specific and would like it there I think :slight_smile:

    Anyways, welcome to EC!! And congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
  7. layladylay

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    Thanks, this is such a huge forum I had no idea where to start looking.... :slight_smile:
     
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