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Heya peeps big waves to yous

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by lemino, May 11, 2015.

  1. lemino

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    Hey, I'm Lemino, 25 years old (bday was on the 11th may) male and I am a bisexual/pansexual.

    I love photography this is my own little world, when I hold the camera everything that is troubling me tends to go away and I focus more on getting that one shot and experiment with what I am limited to. I also have dyslexia which will mean my grammar might not be 100% but I will try to read what I have written.

    I've not really told anyone on who I am, my ex broke my friends understanding on who I was with the "I converted him back" line knowing I was still struggling with myself at 19. I believe now he forgotten about when I came out to him and he was all cool about it which took alot out of me and now I am hiding again. On a brightside I think one of my friend who is now a work manager of mine knows as she keeps asking "Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend yet?" which I reply with "Neither." So that feels kinda good to know she is fine if I decide to tell her.
     
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    Hi, Lemino! How's it going? There's lots of people to talk to here, so don't feel afraid about writing on my wall, someone else's, or starting a new thread in one of the other topics!

    Have a good day! ^.^
     
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    Hi! Welcome to EC! ^^^ Onyx Wolf is a good photographer too, you two can exchange tips on photography. Well, you two should share it to me, a photography student :slight_smile:

    Anyways, I hope you are feeling better now. If you need comfort and advice, you can make a thread about it in General Support and Advice forums. People here are more than willing to help you :slight_smile: Just dont be afraid to write on people's wall. If you want, you can start with me :slight_smile:

    Enjoy!
     
  4. lemino

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    Thank you Onyx wolf and golgari, It's great to see active users on here and friendly too! I post my pictures on flickr I started with a bridge camera now I use a DSLR.

    I'm sure to be on here quite abit and I hope to return the help to others when I can :slight_smile:
     
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    Belated happy birthday, lemino! And Welcome to EC!


    Wow, a photographer! I always wish I could photographs as prettily as the experts. But I don't think I have the right skillset. :slight_smile:
     
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    happy bday for yesterday! :kiss:

    Welcome to EC! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    Try looking for people you can trust with this. Maybe your coworker? It's always nice to have people to lean on if/when you encounter prejudiced peple. There might also be cafés or support groups (LGBT+)? Maybe that would be something to look at ? :slight_smile:

    Anyways, great to have ya here, and welcome again ! (*hug*)
    see ya around!
     
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    Hello Lemino! :grin: Welcome to EC~
     
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    Welcome to EC, Lemino. Good to read your introduction and I hope you will find some confidence by being here.

    Sounds like you have an ally in your work manager, so when you are ready, she might be a good person to tell.

    Join in the conversations and if you need help or support create a thread in the support area. Nice to have you on board.
     
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