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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by thommthomm, May 27, 2007.

  1. thommthomm

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    What's up guys(and girls if there are any). I am Thommthomm and I have been openly gay for 20yrs. I am only 33yrs.-old. I will tell this, don't rush into anything. YOU have to know yourself inside and out and trust that you are who you're supposed to be. There is no one on the face of this Earth that has the right to tell you otherwise.

    GOD made you who he wanted you to be and let me tell you something when you can accept that love comes unconditionally. I am not a religious freak, just someone who loves GOD and himself. I wuold never change who I am for anything, because I know that GOD loves the way I am. We are all born gay and there is nothing that can be done to stop it...no matter how much people want us too. I just hope some day those who deny who they are can come to terms with it and accept it. (&&&) (&&&)
     
  2. EthanS

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    Hey wc:thumbsup: , not all of us r born gay btw, i wasnt not sure wen i turned=S
     
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    Hi and Welcome to EC!
     
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    Hi Thommthomm:smilewave
    -WW
     
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    Hey, You came out when u were 13? Cool! lol I am 14..so ya...but anyway welcome:slight_smile:
     
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    hi and welcome to ec
     
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    Hey there Thommthomm! Welcome to EC! It's great that you're so comfortable with yourself, and those were some very encouraging words there! Glad to have you aboard! ^^
     
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    Hi Thommthomm - welcome to EC! :slight_smile: What a great first post!

    I also believe that I was born gay.
     
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    Hellow and Big Welcome from me!!!!!!

    I wanna tattoo your words to my dad's face:bang:

    Anyways, hope to see you around:smilewave
     
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    Thank you guys it means alot to me that I have a place to go, because sometimes even someone as open as I am feels the pressure of homophia and it still can hurt the soul. I will offer some (hopefully) good advice when I can.

    Trust me it was not easy when I came out at 13. It was way back in 1987. Times were not like they are today, but I put my faith and love in God and he showed me that I am who I was meant to be.

    HAVE FAITH AND THINGS WILL BE ALRIGHT!
     
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    Thank you for your powerful words, they are really meaningful to me! ^^

    Yeah, lsometimes wen I can not handle things taht are really stressed me out, I run to God and pray so he can give me enough strength. And mostly he answered me ^^
     
  12. EthanS

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    1987?
    Thats wen i was stil a feotus XD
     
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    Welcome to EC!

    God doesn't seem to like me, though.
     
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    hi welcome from me also jayden
     
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    Welcome to EC. I'm sure you'll have lots to contribute here. I have to agree that we are born the way we are - it just exposes itself to us at different times and for different reasons and in different ways.
     
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    That is all was trying to say, thank you for puting it that way.:thumbsup:

    GOD loves All of his children. When I am ready to tell my full story I will do so. When you hear it it will sadden you...until then TAKE CARE ALL!!

    "HAVE FAITH AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!"
     
  17. thommthomm

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    I have posted my story in the coming out stories section...hope you read it and can comment.
     
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    Welcome! I think you were here before me, but what ever!:biggrin: