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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by queer spoonie, Jun 1, 2015.

  1. queer spoonie

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    Hello, I'm afab and in the process of self exploration to understand my gender identity. I've been openly bisexual for many years but only recently came out about being genderqueer to a few safe people. I'm still trying to discover which labels I feel most comfortable using to describe myself. My experience could be described as genderfluid as there are days when I am extremely comfortable with being read as female but I also often feel genderless or neutral or neutral-but-masculine-but-not-actually-male so... It's still a confusing time for me.

    I'm hoping to find a community in which I can safely explore my gender and discuss or ask questions about things I am too afraid/not ready to discuss openly in real life.

    I've got a ton of questions to ask and things I'm bursting to talk about but I'm not entirely sure where to start. I've kept this to myself for a long time and I'm really anxious to find a safe space to finally talk about it.
     
  2. YuriBunny

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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey there :wave:
     
  4. queer spoonie

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    Hi :slight_smile: Thank you for saying hello to me.
     
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    Its very nice to meet you. I hope you enjoy the website. I'm quite new here too but I know my way around.
     
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    Welcome welcome! :icon_bigg
     
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    Hey, welcome to EC (*hug*) & Stop worrying about labels :grin:
     
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    Hi Afab and Welcome!